Lawfully Uncoupling Blog
Insights from the Divorce Whisperer
When Is Enough, Actually Enough?
Breaking free from a long-standing relationship is a decision many of us dread making... Fear often keeps people tethered to unhappy relationships. The fear of the unknown, the fear of damaging children, financial worries, and the spectre of a bitter legal battle can paralyse one's ability to take that crucial step towards happiness.
But how do you know when enough, is actually enough?
Sleighing Separation 🎄✨
At Christmas things do tend to come to a head. There are all the family rituals, obligations and competing family loyalties. It can create a lot of pressure on some relationships… And in the New Year, there is a surge in new divorce cases as people swear they won't endure another Christmas like the last one and are determined to make a change.
So how can you sleigh separation this holiday season?
Is a Divorce Barbie on your Christmas list?
Why is 'Divorce Barbie' so much more expensive?” The attendant chuckles and explains, “Well, you see, 'Divorce Barbie' comes with Ken's car, Ken's house, and most of Ken's superannuation.”
Now, that joke may not be side-splitting. But it does highlight an important point: It’s not true. The system is not against the man in the relationship.
Black Friday: A Divorce from Overspending
Surprisingly, the chaos of Black Friday can draw parallels to the complexities of divorce —thrills, excitement, impulse decisions, and sometimes, regrettable outcomes…
How Do I Cut Down On Legal Costs?
If this is not the number one question going through people’s minds as the face a break-up, it is certainly near the top of the list. This is particularly the case in these current challenging economic times. How can I get through my family law separation, without it costing a fortune?
Divorce As A Healing Experience? Yes! It Is Possible…
Divorce doesn't have to be a traumatic ordeal. The heart of a healing divorce experience lies in a well-structured program designed to streamline the process, empower you, and foster cooperation. Here's a brief overview of how it works…
What If Your Ex-Partner Starts Court Proceedings?
It's a scenario none of us wants to face - the dreaded moment when your ex-partner decides to take the legal route and initiate court proceedings… It can be a disaster for everyone involved, except for the lawyers who relish the adversarial process. So what do you do?
3 Key Issues Why People End Up In Court
Understanding the underlying factors that can contribute to the dissolution of marriages and negatively influence the separation or divorce process is crucial in preventing an expensive date with the courtroom.
World Suicide Prevention Day
Sunday 10 September is "World Suicide Prevention Day," and a day that allows me to remember my late son, while heartbreaking, underscores the importance of reaching out for help when needed… It wasn't a divorce or separation, but it was a crisis similar to the emotional turmoil experienced during such life-altering events.
Stop! Be Proactive And Action.
The breakup of a marriage or partnership is challenging enough on its own. But when anger, fear, and resentment rear their ugly heads, it can transform the situation into an unpleasant and costly contest… So in the words of the wise Vanilla Ice; “Stop! Be Proactive and Action”.